The Good Judy Blog

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Handling Online Hate During Pride Month

Pride Month is a season of visibility. Mainstream media covers our stories, government agencies issue statements and proclamations, corporations peddle our merch and display our flags. Sometimes the attention feels

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Pride Is More Than Celebration

Every June, rainbow logos appear. Flags go up. Corporations discover a sudden enthusiasm for diversity. While we love the celebration, truly, pride is more than celebration.

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Creativity As a Mental Health Practice

The Monetization of Creativity Productivity culture has done remarkable damage to the human psyche. It has transformed creativity into performance, branding, monetization, content. There are an almost innumerable number of

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Queer Joy Is Therapy

Some people think therapy means sitting in a dimly lit room, crying into a feelings wheel throw pillow while the therapist sits in the corner nodding saying, “tell me more

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Your Nervous System Isn’t Broken

You’re not anxious because your nervous system is broken. You’re adapted. Your system learned that the world requires vigilance. The tightness in your chest when you walk into a room,

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LGBTQ+ Trauma Therapy

The therapy room is sacred. Jung used the word “temenos”, sacred precinct, to describe both the therapeutic relationship and the space within us where the work of therapy can be

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Celebrating Fluidity

Who told you to pick a side? A parent? Friend? A therapist?? Maybe it was a partner who needed your identity to hold still so theirs could feel secure. Somewhere

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Attachment in LGBTQIA+ Relationships

Modern romantic suffering is not primarily about compatibility, communication skills, orpersonal failure. It’s the predictable outcome of widespread insecure attachment interacting with dopamine-driven dating systems, weakened community structures, and misunderstood

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